Saturday, June 28, 2008

Escape no further

I'm once again in Mcleod Ganj after a week in Tashi Jong that truly flew, 2 long travel days to and from the north (one of which involved one very upset tummy on an all out angry road full of bumps, potholes, cattle, hairpin turns and a stuffed jeep), and 2 very hot and humid days in Delhi. On the last day, the kids had the opportunity to shop (which they whole-heartedly took advantage of - the bags piled in a veritable shrine not to a hindu god but rather the power of the dollar) and then spent the afternoon at a country club where they could swim in a private setting, relax, get henna and a good meal before they flew out. That night we successfully traded 10 kids for 36 (yikes!), Delhi day tour the next day in monstrous bus and then a jeep caravan of 8 yesterday! Phew! They seem like a great bunch *knock on wood* so I'm looking forward to getting to know them.

I feel so lucky for the opportunity to spend time in both places. Mcleod seems like such an escape from Delhi what with the exhaust fumes, dust and dirt, urine, heat, fried samosas, cow manure and sweat giving way to a calming incense wafting from the temples and private alters through open windows. The two main roads redolent of steamed Thingmo bread and Momos (Tibetan dumplings) and fresh rain. There is a CD shop that continuously plays Tibetan temple chants with a lulling backmusic and even the honking cars and motorbikes are punctuated by the sight of prayer flags flapping from every rooftop carrying the message of peace into the breeze. The program I am running is called "Service in the Clouds" and there couldnt be a more apt name. The clouds are more alive here than any other place I have ever been. They come and go with such purpose and when they choose to stay it gives everything such an ethereal appearance. One day, the staff went for a cup of chai in a tiny little shop just large enough for two benches and a nook for the fire and teapot. As we sat chatting and relaxing after a full morning the beautiful view from the window became opaque and then white and suddenly it was like an invisible hand was pulling cotton across our laps - perhaps that cloud just wanted to join us for a chai :).

Whereas, Mcleod feels like an escape from Delhi, Tashi Jong is an escape from Mcleod Ganj. Tashi is so small most people have never heard of it. Its a close community of Tibetan Refugees in an idealic setting of rice fields and rivers combing brilliant green hills. There are no backpackers, no markets, no traffic, there arent even any roads through town! One small road ends in the town square. In one direction, directly off the square, is the temple complex where monks from the tender age of 6 up learn the ways of budhist life. All day long, you can see them pacing the roof with books in their hands, chatting in the stairwells through ornate windows, circumabulating the Kora (a loop around the Temple including spinning each of 30 prayer wheels), even buying treats in one of two tiny shops in the square (where the owners sit making incredibly intricate wood carvings for purchase and for use in stamping prayer flags). The now familiar garnet and saphron robes strolling around town add a distinctly feeling of content to lovely Tashi Jong.

Off another side of the square is the only quest house in town where the staff stay (the kids have homestays) and then buffering the last side is where all of the laypeople live in a wonderful matrix of slender aisles and houses. Everything is within a 5 minute walk until you cross the bridge and head towards the neighboring indian village and the bus stop a good 20 minutes away.

I began each day rising just after 6 am so that I could do my own Kora. I spun each set of wheels with a specific person/s in mind, continued up the steps to the temple which is one of my favorite sights early in the morning, so colorful and happy. Around to a small room holding 3 giant prayer wheels with rods sticking out of them that rang a bell with each revolution. At this point I'm usually walking alongside other townfolk doing their own morning routine. I'd then pass a pile of stones painted with Tibten symbols and mantras and then sneak off to the left, where I never once saw another person. A path led to the cremation area and beyond that a quaint meadow adorned with hundreds of prayer flags, some faded strings of white, tattered, others fresh and brightly colored to represent the 5 elements (wind, water, cloud, earth and fire). This was my place. My spot, every morning to breath and be with myself as the sun rose and made those flags glow... true peace. It was a wonderful way to start the day :).

The kids day began at 7am. We met and hiked up to a retreat center where we would meet with the mayor of Tashi (a monk) who would speak to us about Budhism, answer questions and teach us about meditation, which we would also do for a portion of that hour. The necessary cup of chai was delivered by a darling little 9 year old girl. At 8, return to their houses for breakfast and to prepare for 3 hours of service either digging holes for medicinal trees, building a fence or repairing the road. Break for lunch cooked by the community, delicious and hearty Tibetan food and then 3-4 more hours of service, this time speaking english with monks and laypeople and then in the local school room with kids ages 5-16. Afterwards we had an activity such as prayer flag printing with a master carver, Tsatsa making (religious ornaments), cooking and weaving and then the kids have some free time before dinner around 7 or 8. A pretty full day but so very very rewarding!

Tibetans and some of the nicest and warmest people I have ever met. In Tashi, we really felt a part of the community. People would randomly come and join in the service. They would suddenly appear with a pot of freshly brewed chai and cups for everyone. The teenage Tibetans spoke pretty good english and actually made pretty good friends with the staff and a couple of the students. The only other foreigners in town are a couple of great chaps, a brit and an aussie (one of the kids affectionately nicknamed them the "accent guys"), who are living there for 6 months teaching english to monks. They have provided many a laugh :). It is just a marvelous place.

As a farewell, on the last night we had a big potluck in the main hall. The teenagers decorated with streamers and each family brought a dish or two. All of the students and staff dressed up in borrowed Chupas (the traditional tibetan dress) and Eric, the other staff, and I even tried to make cookies with extremely limited supplies and frying them on a chapati (flat bread) iron pan... haha, surprisingly they weren't bad! After dinner, we all learned some traditional Tibetan dance and then broke out the ipod speakers and had one serious dance party!! Ha, pictures soon to come hopefully :)

Phew! I feel great to finally give you all a decent update and wish I could snap my fingers to bring you all over here to experience this yourself! Its unbelievable at times and I haven't even been here for a month yet!! Love and miss you all - until next time!


PS: I almost forgot to mention one of the best parts of my visit to Delhi 2.5 weeks ago. I was lucky enough to meet up with my good friend Suraj for an entire half hour! Ha, we had hoped to spend the evening prior together as he had a layover in Delhi on his way to Bangledesh but unfortunately his flight was delayed and he had to rush into town from the airport in the morning for a very brief, however exciting catch-up session! He also delivered a highlighter which is the most random thing that I had not been able to locate - what a true friend! Thanks Suraj! Next time we'll get at least an hour ;)

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Trading Places

A quick entry to let you all know that I will be heading up to Tashi Jong today, a small rural village east of Mcleod Ganj. I was supposed to spend 2 weeks in Mcleod and the second two with the new group in Tashi but, since we have 36 kids then instead of 10, we decided I was needed more in Mcleod. I would still like to experience little Tashi, so I will trade with Tina just for a week.

The basketball court is looking good with the patch of ground leveled off thanks to the hard work of the kids in the rain and mud. My one bit of bad new is that yesterday I managed to lose ALL of my pictures taken thus far in India! Trust I am more than a little upset about this. I stuck my card into a card reader provided by the inet cafe and somehow it zapped it so that I now have no images on the card... I had some brilliant shots of a Tibetan protest, beautiful Indian construction work-women dressed in their elegant saris, the kids making chapati with the locals at the Sikh temple... I was really looking forward to sharing the next round and now, not only do you not get to see them, I no longer do either. *sigh* Life goes on, but this definitely stings.

Hopefully I will get a chance to update while in Tashi, otherwise, I will be in Delhi once again around the 26th and back up in Mcleod after that!

Friday, June 13, 2008

Facebook pictures

For those of you that do not have Facebook (you're missing out! ;), here is a link to the first round of pics that I have uploaded. Enjoy and let me know what you think!

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2011926&l=3af3a&id=60100993

The 3 P's

Today we finally picked up the kids from the airport and my work has begun. Delhi was sweltering again but with more humidity this time. We even got a brief rain in the afternoon which drove us into the National Museum rather than the tour of the Red Fort as I'd hoped. The museum was a pleasant surprise and although I only had enough time to skim the first floor, I saw some amazing art - some of which was more than 4,000 years old! The kids seem great despite being drowsy from jetlag, so I am really looking forward to the program getting started! The kids also got to visit a Sikh temple, cover their heads in bright orange (tourist) kerchiefs and the best part was getting to make chapati (a type of bread similar to a thick tortilla) in the community kitchen where all devotees come to help when they visit. I even made a couple myself and stirred a giant (maybe 5ft wide) bowl of onions over a raging fire. Kids and elderly alike sitting around the platforms... you must see the pictures!

Yesterday, the other staff and I had one last day to get some of our own errands out of the way. I did not have much to do, so I wandered the labyrinthine streets until I found myself at one of the main markets once again browsing the hundreds of stalls for gifts. Despite the fact that there were 50 or so Indians around me at any given moment, I never ceased to hear "Madam! Madam! Yes, come and have a look! Just look. Looking is free. Just step in side! Madam, yes, I have something for you. Please Madam!" It was really quite amusing to see the tired shopkeepers perk up and grab something to show my or even follow me for 5 minutes offering me deals "special deals" for something they thought they saw me glance at. Like little shadows. I did find someone that I think I trust enough to make some ready-to-wear saris (since I do not know how to do the complex pleating), which is exciting and I could not get enough of the brilliantly colored materials! Even outside the shops, you see 6 meter long 'banners' hanging from apartment balconies. These banners, being not just laundry but a representation of the women within... Ah, the women of India, so elegantly draped in such rich flavor, are the jewels of this country that can otherwise appear so harsh.

The dust never seems to settle in this city of 17 million people. Today the tour guide jokingly cheered that India would soon overcome China since they do not have the one child rule but on a serious note added that Indians suffer from the 3 Ps: Population, Polution and Poverty. Sadly, so evident. Each day I venture out from the AC oasis that is my hotel room, I see people from all walks of life, I see people in traditional and modern dress, all forms of transportation (more than once I've seen a bicycle rickshaw driver on his feet, pulling his bike over a particular rough road laden with a customer. My favorite form of transport is the motorcycle rickshaw and my least favorite is the bicycle rickshaw), ever so constant honking to the point that I wonder if it is some form of morse code they are speaking with each other.

Every once in a while, I admit my friends and I would duck into a cafe to cool off and drink an overpriced coffee or my favorite as of late, a green apple soda from a place like 'Cafe Coffee Day'. It's a guilty pleasure as you pay 2-3 times as much, but it's a short, comfortable reprieve from the onslaught of Delhi.

So, I still have some catching up to do in regards to the first weeks whirlwind experiences but for now I must get some sleep before another 12 hour journey north - this time, with 10 kids en tow! Until next time! :)

Monday, June 9, 2008

Delhi!


I am booked on a night train tonight heading back down to Delhi to pick up the first group of students. Im looking forward to the program starting and getting to share in the exploration of these kids! I will have a couple days though before they get in to finish up my own shopping and do a little more sight seeing. I wish I could bring a little of this cool mountain air with me, as Delhi was stifling the one day I was there before, but I'm afraid I'm just going to have to melt.

I haven't much time left in the cafe but I wanted to catch up just a bit more.

My first day in Delhi was spent sightseeing. Dressed in long linen sleeves over a long dress, we hired a jeep (with AC - high rollers ;) for the day to take us to various temples and ancient monuments. I was literally salivating over the colors! Women dressed in bright Saris of every possible color with gold and silver embelishments. I was impressed by the fact that they were in pristine condition and perfectly pressed and clean, in direct contrast to the city streets they walked. Piles of various vegetables, some of which I couldn't identify were to be found on every corner and all types of mobile shops including chai, samosas and other interesting street foods, shoe shiners, ear cleaners, shavers, tire fixers and who knows what else! Anything to earn your daily rupee.

I was lucky enough to have my very own run-in with an ear cleaner! I had already heard from another Rustic Pathway staff about a time that he had been conned into getting his ear cleaned. They actually pack your ear full of crap as a slight of hand - you never see it coming and then they ask 5 times the initial price to get it all out. My friend ended up refusing to pay, walked away, and it wasn't until 6 months later when he visited his own doctor that he discovered he had a blob of gunk the size a marble in his ear! Needless to say I was warry - but on the other hand, I kind of enjoy humoring guys like this once in a while... a lesson perhaps I should learn :). To make a long story short, I allowed this kid to just look in my ear, which prompted him to tell me "Oh, you very dirty! You like celebrity but you are too dirty!" I told him that wasn't the first time I had heard that ;). He did not release my ear for the next 5 minutes while I walked away from him and he even swabbed my ear producing some black gel substance supposedly from my ear. Ha, by this time, we had a few on-lookers enjoying the show and I had to bow out.

I bought a couple pieces of Indian clothing, my first Salwar Kamis and believe I got taken in the first purchase. The entire outfit would fit about 3 of me and I was told afterwards by another shopkeeper it was "baba gi size" Live and learn :). I have eaten some amazing Indian food - like nothing I have had anywhere else and there is still so much left to try!

My time is up - off to Delhi and hopefully more before long!

First Impression

At last! I've tried to sit down in an internet cafe for the past several days and give you all some belated details regarding my first week in India and it seems as though so much is happening that I can barely start to organize my thoughts before something else takes my attention. India is truly a beautiful, colorful chaos and I believe it's going to take me a while before I can delve deeper than the top layer which in and of itself is pretty intense.

Truly, such a contrast to countries that I have visited before, where there is at least an attempt at order. Major monuments placed neatly across town, shops in shopping districts, the better side of town, the side you know better than to wander alone... but here... all of this previous eperience is as good as skis in downtown Delhi.

I arrived safe and sound last week after a surprisingly comfortable 30 hour flight. Jet airways has officially surpassed KLM and Lufthansa as my favorite airline. I also managed to get through US security with a half full bottle of vitamin water which I had forgotten about - too bad I didn't bring my Nitroglycerine with me (read: that's a joke FBI/TSA! Thank you for not making me throw it out). I also made it into India with two apples in my carry-on - Lucky me!

The amazing thing about Delhi, at least my first impression was the masses of people. Keep in mind, I left the airport around 12:30 am and there was still traffic! Still rickshaws and jeeps and vans and cows and dogs and people swerving about, deftly and narrowly avoiding one another (usually). I just cannot believe that so many people fit in one confined area. It is so contrary to nature, where generally all life besides human kind, tends to populate a particular space to an acceptable, harmonic balance. Not us. We, the obstinant human race that we are, abide by no rules and seem determined to pack as many of us in, next to, on top of an underneath as we can. I cannot imagine living in a city like this. That being said, it makes me all the more intrigued. It is such a way of life that is so completely foriegn to me, I long to understand and if I am lucky, peel back a couple layers and live just a little while in this beautiful colorful chaos.